(TW: Ableism, Medical Abuse, Neglect, ED (Weight), Ableist Language)
Three years ago, a 6-year-old Seattle girl called Ashley, who had severe disabilities, was, at her parents’ request, given a medical treatment called “growth attenuation” to prevent her growing. She had her uterus removed, had surgery on her breasts so they would not develop and was given hormone treatment. She is now known by the nickname her parents gave her — Pillow Angel.
The case of Ashley hit the media in January after publication of an article in a medical journal about her treatment. It reappeared in the news recently because of the admission by Children’s Hospital and Regional Medical Center that the procedures its doctors had performed to stop Ashley from growing and reaching sexual maturity violated state law. In Canada (as in Australia), a child can be sterilized only with the consent of a court.
At the time of the initial publicity about growth attenuation, Ashley’s parents wrote on their blog: “In our opinion only parents of special needs children are in a position to fully relate to this topic. Unless you are living the experience, you are speculating and you have no clue what it is like to be the bedridden child or their caregivers.”
I did live the experience. I lived it not as a parent or caregiver but as a bed-ridden growth-attenuated child. My life story is the reverse of Ashley’s.
![[Image: A gathering of people in a parade/march walking down the street. Many carrying signs. In front is a sign behind held by three people, all fairly light skinned and white or white-passing. Their banner reads: “No Body is Illegal. Every Job Everywhere.” Around it are the words: Queer, lesbian, intersect, pan, Trans*, bi, gay, Asexual. The word “Asexual” is the largest word written in black all caps.]
baddominicana:
desliz:
zincfingers:
dogplanet:
tranqualizer:
borninflames82:
One of our May Day Queer Block banners! <3
THIS MAKES ME REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE
NO
jesus christ
not every ~slogan of liberation~ is for all queer people
sometimes you actually need to think
how in the HELL does one get this far into activist circles/life and not think “gee, rhetoric about no bodies being illegal is already really heavily associated with immigrant movements, maybe we shouldn’t put it on our fucking ENDA banner or something”
HOW
HOW
(and, for a comparatively minor nitpick, for the love of fuck not every sexual proclivity/orientation is discriminated against in employment practices in a homophobic, transphobic society.)
p.s. gj making the one identity that experiences no systemic oppression of any kind bigger than all the others, you are truly revolutionary
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